Organising a funeral for a child

Losing a child is an unimaginable heartbreak. We are taught to believe that we will die before our children, but unfortunately, this does happen. If you need support or guidance on arranging a funeral, I’m here to help. It’s important to take care of yourself during this time as well. Would you like to talk about specific arrangements or any other concerns you might have?

When it comes to arranging a funeral for a child, here are some steps you might consider:

1. Choose a Funeral Director: Some Funeral Directors, like the CoOp charge no fees for under-sixteens. They can provide compassionate guidance throughout the process.
2. Coffin Options: Coffins for children come in various sizes and styles. Many funeral homes offer specialized options, such as small caskets or alternative containers that may be more appropriate for a child.
3. Service Type: Decide whether you want a traditional service, a more personalized celebration of life, or a private gathering. This could involve choosing readings, music, and any special rituals you want to include.
4. Burial or Cremation: Consider whether you want a burial or cremation, as this will affect your choice of coffin and arrangements.
5. Memorial Items: Think about any memorial items, like keepsake urns or personalized items that can honor your child’s memory.
6. Support: Don’t hesitate to lean on friends, family, or support groups during this difficult time.

It’s important to take your time and do what feels right for you and your family. If you have specific questions or need further details, please let me know.